Paige Lorenze is talking out in regards to the therapy she allegedly suffered by the hands of her ex Armie Hammer and trying to course of what she claims occurred to her.
Lorenze, a 22-year-old faculty scholar who dated the “Social Community” star, 34, for 4 months final yr, says they might have interaction in knife play, throughout which “he would reduce off underwear or bras and use the knife and put it throughout my physique.” In a single incident, he allegedly carved the letter “A” close to her vagina.
“I sort of sat again and let it occur,” she informed us. “I didn’t actually know what to do or say … As unhappy as that’s, I needed him to like me and really feel like I used to be down for what he needed.”
She mentioned she plans to have the scar eliminated.
She mentioned Hammer additionally left her with bruises, which she believes had been one thing he used in an identical method. “He needed me to present them off and be pleased with them,” she informed us. “I mentioned, ‘How am I supposed to see different folks when I’ve bruises?’ He mentioned, ‘That’s the purpose.’ I feel it was part of marking and branding.”
He additionally allegedly boasted to his pals.
“He would at all times inform me when he obtained again from the gymnasium that he was bragging to his pals about carving an ‘A’ into me,” and tells us she believes he took and shared pictures of her with out her permission. “I’ve gotten a DM saying Armie had despatched me pictures of me tied up that I didn’t find out about. I didn’t even know the pictures existed or what they appear like. I don’t know if I used to be blindfolded.”
Lorenze, who’s finding out trend design, informed us that Hammer “constructed up my belief to ease me into darker issues.”
“He would praise me and inform me issues that might make me really feel on prime of the world,” she defined. “The primary time we met, he had me name him ‘Sir’ or ‘Daddy.’ It didn’t actually alarm me. I was like, ‘That is totally different and this may very well be enjoyable and an journey,’ and I appreciated him.”
Looking back, she mentioned, “[He] knew what he was doing and knew how to get me to do these items, he was sensible about it.”
And he or she mentioned of Hammer, “He needed me to be his intercourse slave. He was like, ‘You might be so trainable.’”
An legal professional for Hammer mentioned in a press release, “These assertions about Mr. Hammer are obviously unfaithful. Any interactions with this particular person, or any companion of his, had been fully consensual in that they had been totally mentioned, agreed upon, and mutually participatory. The tales being perpetuated within the media are a misguided try to current a one-sided narrative with the purpose of tarnishing Mr. Hammer’s repute, and communications from the people concerned show that.”
Over their relationship, Lorenze, who had beforehand not engaged in BDSM, says he confirmed her films on the topic, like Maggie Gyllenhaal’s “Secretary,” and “would discuss to me about different ladies he had been with and carried out issues with.”
Wanting again, Lorenze mentioned, “There have been purple flags all through the connection. I suppose I simply put them to the aspect and he made me really feel so assured at occasions.” She added, “He would speak about it like a standard BDSM relationship, however it wasn’t. This was method exterior and past that.” She says she thinks that Hammer “loved hurting girls, however used BDSM as a masks for this.”
Lorenze tells us Hammer additionally introduced up “consuming her” and had informed her he needed her to take away a rib to eat. “I believed he was kidding. It didn’t register to me this was one thing he was severe about till he introduced it up a number of occasions and seeing different girls come out with the identical factor. After which it was like, ‘Wow, that is actually scary.’”
Lorenze broke issues off with Hammer over an accumulation of issues, saying she began to really feel “bizarre and icky and sick to my abdomen.” She tells us, “I used to be beginning to really feel what he had carried out and what he was doing to me. It takes a very long time to actually perceive what occurred and the way somebody manipulated you.”
She is now actively looking for remedy and coping with the psychological fallout. She says, “The robust a part of that is that consent is absolutely difficult. Emotionally and psychologically you could be simply as traumatized. It’s disgusting that he coerces girls into these conditions. It’s harmful.”
Lorenze is grateful that different girls have spoken out and says she discovered from the expertise. “Studying how to say ‘no’ is such a wonderful lesson. I didn’t understand how necessary it was.” She added, “It takes constructing your shallowness and you’re a lot much less susceptible to folks like Armie.”
Hammer’s ex Courtney Vucekovich beforehand informed Web page Six, “He mentioned to me he desires to break my rib and barbecue and eat it.” She defined of the connection: “He enters your life in such a giant method … He has such a presence and he’s conscious of that and he makes use of it in such a method that the majority girls would assume, ‘Oh my gosh, that is superb,’ however particularly younger girls, that’s sort of the scary half — how good he is at energetic manipulation and making you’re feeling like he’s by no means felt this manner about anyone.”
Hammer stepped away from the upcoming movie “Shotgun Marriage ceremony” this month, stating of leaked alleged messages to girls that concerned cannibalism fantasies, “I’m not responding to these bulls–t claims, however in gentle of the vicious and spurious on-line assaults in opposition to me, I can not in good conscience now go away my youngsters for 4 months to shoot a movie within the Dominican Republic.”
Lorenze has additionally been interviewed about Hammer by the Every day Mail.